We better come together learn to love and respect one another.We are all in the same boat,just look at what the recession is doing to countries with so much more resoures than we do.One caribbean stop the hatred,we are all in this together.

Please go to your church pastor, get some counseling support, find family or friends who can spend time with you to help you maintain a level head. In no way should you be planning to kill anyone. If you are being harrassed go to the police and let them take care of it.

This is a message to you and women in general. “Those whom God have joined together let no man put asunder” are some powerful words. When a married man approaches you, it is to try and see how far he can get. It is up to you to let him know that you are not going to play that kind of a game. Moreover, why would you want to be with someone who is openly showing you that cheating is part of his game? Furthermore, if cheating is part of a married man’s game, you may not be the only one that he is cheating with.

Lastly, you want to be in a relationship where you have someone who is genuinely available emotionally to provide a balance in a meaningful relationship. You cannot find that balance with a player who is already married. If you want to maintain your dignity and self respect….ladies lift up a standard and leave married men alone.

Clearly, you intuition tell you that something is wrong in your relationship. Trust your intuition and seek to find a balance. Moreover, why is he hiding you during social events? And why are females calling? You really should not have to condone that.

I would suggest you seek professional counseling to open a better line of communication between both of you, and to define the parimeters of your relationship. Until you can rebuild a respectful sense of communication and a mutually loving, caring bond, you must de-stress by at least ten minuites of daily exercise, finding support among family and friends, eating well balanced meals, getting enough rest and spending time doing whatever is your favorite hobby. I wish you well.

Young lady, with all due respect you are twenty-one years old, and I admire you for holding it down with an independent spirit since you were sixteen. I also respect your pursuit of furthering your education. Now I am going to move on over to reality. You are twenty-one years old single woman with a level head, and you are going to choose to have a child with a man who is twenty-four with three children? Moreover, he is “unemployed” and not able to pay child support. Even if he is unemployed, this young man is a player who has not been responsible in terms of how he conducts his life.

Although you may seem independent and free spirited at twenty-one, if I were in your situation, I would give some real thought to whether or not you are making the right choices in terms of your “anxiety with having a child” with a man that has three children at twenty-four is unemployed and cannot provide child support or emotional stability. What is really the rush? Only fools rush in.. and I am not indicating that you are a fool.

Lastly, let me tell you having more than one sexual partner is putting yourself at risk for severe life threatening sexually transmitted diseases. Apart from HIV/AIDS, Hep C and B are rampant, and the HPV (human papilloma virus) viruses that causes cervical cancer in women widespread. As of today’s date there are according to medical experts twenty-five diseases that are classified as sexually transmitted diseases.

Take care of your mind, body and spirit, and life will unfold if you give yourself the time to think about making the right choices. Prayer is a link to being grounded in a balanced spiritual state of mind. I wish you all the best.

P.S Ladies, I am not a doctor but if you are sexually active you should get an annual Pap smear that includes HPV screening. You should know your sexual partner medical history and have protected sex at all times. The life you save may be your own.